Arundathi

In Hindu weddings,there is a ritual where a star  named Arundathi is pointed out to the newlyweds.I've heard about this but considered it to be just one of the many formalities in a traditional wedding.But,the significance of this ritual is astounding proving that ancient traditions are based on the vast knowledge of our seers.

Arundathi is the wife of Rishi Vasishta,one of the Saptha Rishis (Seven Rishis).She is considered to be the very embodiment of chastity and her virtues are extolled in many ancient texts .The wives of the other six rishis are known as "Karthikas".

The story of Arundathi goes like this. Lord Agni was once captivated by the beautiful wives of the seven rishis. Svaha, Lord Agni's wife could take any form with her mystical powers.On learning about her husband's infatuation,she assumed the form of one of the Karthikas every day to please him.

Six days passed and she tried to take Arundathi's form on the seventh day but in vain.The futility of her endeavours made her realise that she had failed because Arundathi was so devoted to her husband that no other woman could ever succeed in impersonating her.

Svaha accepted her mistake and prayed to Arundathi for forgiveness.To honour Arundathi's chastity, Svaha gave a boon that when a wedding is conducted with Agni as witness and the couple  see Arundathi ,they will be blessed with good fortune.

Arundathi is beside her husband Vasishta in the Saptha Rishi mandala (Ursa Major). Unlike other stars, Vasistha and Arundathi revolve together in perfect harmony. These twin stars are a testimonial to the devotion of both as even Sage Vasishta was very true to his wife, not entranced by even Rambha,Urvashi and Menakha.

The ritual emphasizes that the newly wed couple should be as devoted to each other as Arundathi and Vasistaa. Another interesting  fact is that any offering made to Agni is complete only when the name  "Svaha" is recited at the end. Such was the respect accorded to woman in ancient times!

http://thathachariyar.blogspot.co.uk/2011/02/blog-post_2453.html

http://vedicgoddess.weebly.com/joy-ma-blog/svaha-the-wife-of-fire

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vashistha

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